Broken Bonds

“In the Company of Men is a 1997 drama film about two men who plot to ruin a woman's life to get revenge on the female gender:

Plot: Two junior executives, Chad and Howard, are recently hurt by women and decide to get revenge on the female gender. They choose a vulnerable woman, Christine, to seduce and then dump, but things get complicated when Howard falls in love with her.
Cast: Stars Aaron Eckhart, Stacy Edwards, and Matt Malloy.
Director: Neil LaBute, who also directed Nurse Betty, Your Friends and Our Friends, and Neighbors.
Where to watch: Available on Pluto TV.”

Growing up in my hometown, Washington, DC, I was always in the company of men since I was a student in 1978. Interesting title for a movie which was released when I was 20 years old. In the television movie - In the Company of Men, Howard told Kristen about the contest that he and Chad made to go out with Kristen. It is never a good idea to play with people's feelings, lifestyle, economics or situation. That is the fastest way people are bruised, build up walls and mountains. Where did men learn that behavior? Why do men think it is good to play those kinds of games?

Marriage proposals and job promotions are not funny. Imagine yourself trapped inside a drain and you are not able to escape. How would you feel?

My demographics and love interests have nothing to do with my philosophy, but who I am as a person.

My birth in Washington D.C. occurred during a heavy political era. I love the ending of the movie when Howard shouts over and over the importance of listening.

When partners listen fully to one another it shows genuine affection and interest.

Bold Color Mix

Bold Color Mix. Digital art created on canvas. September 27, 2024. Afrika Abney Bold Color Mix focuses on the interplay between red, yellow and purple. Red represents determination, while yellow represents optimism. Lastly, purple represents creativity. Each of these colors creates contrast. With the main color being red to focus on the importance and significance of determination to strive towards achieving purpose behind each designated goal.

Crimson Blossom

Crimson Blossom. Digital art created on canvas. December 7, 2024. Afrika Abney

"Before We Go (2014)"

“While some audiences may view the film as a clichéd boy-meets-girl romance, it is more about two people helping each other to be better versions of themselves rather than just a love story. The film poignantly shows love and compromise in a realistic way, making it worth seeing.” From 1992 - 1993, I visited New York City. During these years, I was a high school student. In 2014, I provided numerous services.

East of the Anacostia River

““East of the River” was simply a geographical description without particular significance. But, it later became how some describe the neighborhoods east of the Anacostia River — often with a negative connotation. During the 1930s and 1940s, land development of the area continued alongside increased racial diversification of the region. At the end of World War II, white flight into suburban Maryland and Virginia resulted in a majority-Black Anacostia. The Anacostia River watershed in the District of Columbia and Maryland is home to more than 800,000 people, 43 species of fish and some 200 species of birds. The watershed has been heavily urbanized over time, losing 6,500 acres of wetlands and 70% of its forest cover. Over the past four centuries the Anacostia has been given many names: the Eastern Branch of the Potomac, the other national river, the dirtiest river in the nation, the forgotten river.” I am dedicated to making a difference in the lives of individuals and famil...

H Street Festival

On September 21, 2019, I created the below flyer for the Malcolm X Drummers and Dancers who appeared at the H Street Festival in 2019. "The H Street Festival in Washington, DC began in 1985 as a small, unofficial block party that was originally planned by the Community-Business Action Coalition (COMBAC) to help revitalize the neighborhood after the 1968 riots. The festival has since grown into one of the city's largest annual events, with over 150,000 participants. The festival highlights the city's arts and humanities, and allows residents and visitors to explore the neighborhood's diverse food and cultural offerings." I have not provided services for the Malcolm X Drummers and Dancers since the pandemic began in 2020.

Independent Consultant Services 2024

"Independent contractors, or freelancers, are self-employed people who work for themselves and provide services to clients as third parties. Independent contractors typically have specialized skills and can work on a temporary or contracted basis for multiple clients. An independent consultant is typically self-employed and works through a contract." Flyer created and designed by Ms. Afrika Abney - https://afrikaabneyconsultant.weebly.com/consultant.html From January 8, 2024 - June 4, 2024, I provided services solely online for the following events: Me, Myself and Our Story: A Creative Writing Institute—a nine-month, three semester writing course for girls 15 through 19; African Americans and Children’s Literature: A Symposium and Exhibition; KALEIDOSCOPE WOMEN’S WRITING COLLECTIVE; Me, Myself and Our Story - Second Session; AACL TOUR; and The Teach Truth Event. The events were hosted by Esther Productions, Inc along with its sponsors and partners....

Echoes of Affection

Echoes of Affection. Digital art created on canvas. December 29, 2024. Afrika Abney “Long nights, short mornings (2016 television movie) is about an examination of the romantic life of a young man in New York City and his sometimes fleeting, sometimes profound experiences with the women he encounters.” I visited New York City from 1992 - 1993 and was a high school student at that time. Yesterday, I watched this movie and am not an advocate of open relationships. I believe in long term commitment, respect, trust, honesty and candidness. In 2016, I provided numerous services and have not provided any dance services since 2016.

Silent Expressions

The act of conveying messages without the use of spoken words is a profound form of communication. This silent expression can manifest through various means, such as body language, facial expressions, and gestures. In many instances, the subtleties of silence can convey emotions, feelings, and thoughts more powerfully than verbal articulation. Silence is not merely the absence of sound but a rich tapestry of meaning that can enhance relationships and facilitate deeper connections. I have said many things in silence. However, I remain puzzled as to why so many single straight men over the age of 30 remain clueless. Real genuine love is an emotional expression built of genuine feelings and affection. Not personal agendas and manipulation. This post is inspired by the “Say it with Silence, “ by Hubert Laws, 1978 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ppl-lDRVUzo). In 1978, I was 2 years old and drew attraction to many things.

Act of Kindness

Quote found on the Internet “It’s easy to overlook the struggles that others may be facing in their lives, as we often only see the surface of their experiences. Each person carries their own burdens, and these challenges can be invisible to those around them. This is why it becomes essential to approach others with a sense of empathy and kindness, recognizing that everyone has their own story and battles that may not be immediately apparent. Understanding that we cannot fully grasp the complexities of another person's situation is crucial. Life can be incredibly challenging, and many individuals are navigating difficulties that we might not even be aware of. By fostering an attitude of compassion and kindness, we create a supportive environment that encourages openness and connection, allowing people to feel seen and valued despite their struggles. When we choose to respond with empathy, we not only uplift those around us but also contribute to a culture of understan...

"Love by Chance (TV Movie 2016)"

“The point of the movie Love by Chance is that love can find its way into the lives of people in unexpected ways: Claire's story Claire is a pastry chef who is too busy running her restaurant to focus on relationships. Her mother sets out to find her the perfect man without telling her. When Claire discovers that it wasn't fate that brought them together, it could ruin their relationship. Pete and Ae's story Pete is a shy and rich university student who is trying to hide that he is gay. Ae is a kind and friendly boy who helps Pete up after he is hit by Ae's bicycle. Ae develops feelings for Pete that go beyond friendship, but Pete doesn't want Ae to know the pain of being ridiculed for dating a man. The overall message Love can find its way into the lives of people in unexpected ways, and that love is love.” I do not believe in relationships that involve matchmaking, manipulation and deception. As a straight African - American woman, I was introduced to many pe...

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