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What piece of advice would you give to your 16-year-old self?



Keep being true to myself which is the key to achieving short term and long term goals.




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“Individuality in the workplace can refer to an individualist company culture or to ways to encourage employees to express themselves:


Individualist company culture

This culture values employees' autonomy, rights, and freedoms, and encourages them to be self-starters and think for themselves. It can also involve less rigid structures and less distinction between superiors and subordinates. This type of culture can foster creative thinking and new approaches, but it can also lead to a lack of cohesion and teamwork, or a competitive work environment.


Encouraging employees to express themselves


Here are some ways to encourage individuality in the workplace:

Recognize and celebrate differences: Create opportunities for employees to share their backgrounds, passions, and perspectives through presentations, showcases, or a series of "day in the life" posts. This can build respect and help others learn from different experiences.


Give employees more control: Allow employees to evolve their job responsibilities and give them more control over their work. This can show that you respect them as individuals, and can lead to more passionate work and loyalty.


Make speaking up worthwhile: Create an environment where employees feel safe to ask questions, raise alternative opinions, and voice dissent. Be patient and continuously ask for feedback.


Decorate your workspace: Allow employees to express themselves through their workspace by decorating their desks or cubicles with pictures of family, pets, or other items that are important to them.”







Many years ago, I threw away the items shown in this photo.

Dynamic and introspective individual with a strong sense of self and authenticity, developed since adolescence. Reflecting on the past, I value the importance of staying true to oneself and embracing individuality. My journey from being a 16-year-old in 1993 has shaped my resilience and perspective, allowing me to offer advice on self-acceptance and personal growth. Committed to fostering a sense of identity and confidence in others, I aim to inspire individuals to embrace their uniqueness and navigate life's challenges with integrity.

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